SETTING
I think that the world that we live in has a BIG impact on the way people (gay or straight) express them selfs. If people are gay (congress men, t.v. stars, anyone!) and are afraid to show it, and they sometimes make fun of other people who are really just like them. This is not always peoples fault though, sometimes it is how they were brought up. In the book Am I Blue? The main character was brought up in a polite manner learning that saying faggot and queer are hurtful and impolite, but the fairy god father was brought up learning that those words were just another part of speech.
Some people were taught that being gay is wrong so they discriminate, and hurt anyone who is like that. Sometimes they hide it from them selfs and the rest of the world because they think it is wrong. The world that we live in effects the way that they act to people that are gay or really people that are anything that is just different from what that person is used to.
"Me and my friends called each other faggot and queer... to take away from the people who want to hurt us"-Fairy God Father. I think he is trying to state that people often say it to each other to subside the pain of someone saying it to them who really means it. But in my opinion it is like ripping off a band aid. You can do it 100 times and no matter how fast you do it, it will still hurt the next time. No matter how many times someone will say it to you jokingly it will still hurt the time someone says it to you who really means it. I don't think it is possible to take the meaning gout of hurtful words no matter how many times you say it.
In this book it talks about stereo types and how a lot of people say "Oh that person is not gay because he has a wife" but people really are just assuming. When he got the gaydar/blue vision the main character realized that he wasn't alone. People who were just assumed to be gay ere not and people who were assumed to be as straight as they get were actually gay. This is all because of how people assume stuff that 1/2 the time is not even true. At first he felt very alone and thought no one was like him, but then he realized there were people just like hime EVERYWHERE. Just half the people were in the closet and the other half were an even bigger shock because they were the ones bullying the other gay people!
I think a weird thing is that they talk about bullying too in this book an say how gay kids are bullied. Yes you can think about how horrible the bullies are ESPECIALLY the ones who are also gay and just trying to hide it. But what happened in the end made me look at it from a different perspective. In the end the main character wanted to get back at his bully by showing the world that he was really gay too. This makes me think that the main character might be just as bad as the bully. If you want the whole world to know someone is gay by making them blue, isn't it just as bad as spreading a rumor that someone is gay. Yes i understand that you want to get back at a bully, and I'm not saying I might have not done the same thing. But as a reader i see it in a different perspective and I think at that moment the main character was bullying everyone else.
I really liked this book because it opened my eyes to issues i did not even think existed. It stated facts and information in a kid friendly way, and did not make it boring! I think it was really interesting and would suggest it to anyone who wants to learn more about what gay people go through. Or someone who does not want to feel alone (if you are gay).