Faking 19

I thought best friends were supposed to be your security blanket. The things that protected you against the rest of the world. The one thing that you trust.

In this book the two apparently best friends Alex and M are not really what i think best friends are. Yes they say they are best friends but is that enough. I think the author is trying to give their readers a reality check. This is life. Their is none of this magic that connects two best friends. Or is there.....

I think that the author of this book has a different opinion of what friendship is then me. She says that these two girls are best friends yet Alex is really nice and i feel like M can be nice when she wants to be but for the most part she is well a "snobby typical california stereo type" (nothing agents california!)

Friends are supposed to be nice to each other and care about one another (i know that sounds cheesy but its true) and it seems like all M does is cares about her self and all of her problems. Yes she was born and raised in a rich house where she never had to do anything and her life was all handy dandy. Alex just came to accept that, but i really don't think that is how a friendship works. Who wants to be with someone who doesn't care about you? I don't think anyone would just come and accept that.

I don't like to complain about books because all in all the book is good BUT (and i know there is always a but) The author does get off track in her book. One moment she will be in one spot and the next they will be somewhere else. I just think that she has great plot but then starts to add in and it confuses you then when she goes back to what they were talking about before. But after a few books i think she will be really good write.

Celebraties are People too: Bossypants By: Tina Fey

       

          In the book Bossypants by Tina Fey I am amazed to notice what she goes through and went through as a kid. Even though hollywood seems all glamorous and fun there is a place before then. In Bossypants Tina Fey talks about her life as a kid before she actually became a celebrity. It is weird because you never think about how movie stars got to where they are you just know them as, Oh yah they were in that movie but they had a life before hollywood.


          In the book you get to know who Tina Fey is. She doesn't just write but she puts the same personality that makes her T.V. shows so funny. She is not just a actress but a writer too. Once you read her book you can tell. You don't think about celebrities outside of what you read in the magazines, for example Tina Fey git slashed in the face when she was little. I never knew that but once she pointed it out in her book, i can't NOT notice it. She talks about how she was working in a ticket booth selling for shows that she wasn't even in. It is hard to imagine someone so famous doing something so small.


          What i admire her for because she can be silly and honest about herself without worrying about what people will think about her. She is just a regular person, which is hard to think about knowing her popular status for so long. But she is and she has made plenty of mistakes, gone through just as much pain as us. Even if she is this funny great person, she was someone before this too.


          An issue i think she really stresses in her book is that she was this child who had her own issues and definitely was not "normal". She talks about things that i would never chair to my best friend let alone anyone who read my book! But she does it. I think she wants to illustrate that she isn't a person with a fantasy life that so many people would kill for. She is the weird one who passed out in her doctors office.


          I don't think people realize that their is a history to people before they became famous. I admire Tina Fey for showing me and probably many others that there isn't some special bubble around celebraties. They just followed what they love to do. So should we.

Old Freak the Mighty Blog Posts

Instead of just reading ONE blog post i decided that i wanted to read what other people thought about a book that i have already read. So i looked through old posts and found a few different posts all about the book Freak the Mighty. I read many posts but i decided to write about posts from Yaroslav and Dia. Dia was in my reading group so I already knew her opinions on some of the issues but Yaroslav was in a different Freak the Mighty group so it was interesting to read what he thought about the book as well. Because I have already read this book it was interesting to compare my opinions to other peoples. For example i know this book is about friendship but i never examined it as closely as Dia did in her very first post. I never noticed that it is really a special "zing" that makes these two totally different people have a friendship that is so close. Yaroslav also mentions how not many people get to see the good side of Max. I think this is so true and because Freak and Max are so close is the reason Freak gets to see the good side of him. It is almost like the good side of both Freak and Max IS that extra "zing" that makes their friendship work.

One interesting point that Yaroslav brought up is when he mentions that Max has stage fright. I really think this is interesting and reminds me of a point that Nat brought up in his post about Freak the Mighty.
In the last sentence he says that people sometimes single Max out and make him feel as though he did something wrong. I think these two observations go hand in hand. I think if you have been judged your whole life you are going to be worried if you say the wrong thing in front of a lot of people. Even if Max did not do anything wrong people still look at him as if he is some stupid freak of nature and that puts someone under a lot of pressure, ESPECIALLY because he didn't have a lot of confidence to start off with.

In a post by Yaroslav he mentions about the sequel to Freak the Mighty called Max the Mighty. I didn't even know there was a sequel! He makes me want to read this book a lot because i do agree with his opinions so when he says that the sequel was good i think he must be right. He makes the book sound very interesting just by mentioning some parts of the book.

All of the posts mention the characters in the book, at least once. I think it is interesting how we can all be different people and still think about things in the same way. Everyone talks about how Max is this big guy but he does have a soft side. Another popular subject was there friendship. All of these different people have a common topic and i think that is showing authors purpose. If all of these people are writing about similar issues in the book, or what they think the theme is it must mean that the author wants you to think about this. If only one or two people wrote about how Max does have a soft side it would not make sense and it wouldn't be as important. But all of the blogs do talk about similar issues (in their own ways of course!) and that shows how much people do care about this.

I really enjoyed reading all of these blogs. They gave out opinions and information that i didn't notice the first, or second time i read Freak the Mighty. I liked how i could tell the difference between every blog, they weren't all just the same but people incorporate their own personalities into them.

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In the book the treasure map of boys Ruby is dealing with a lot of friend issues. Honestly for the first time in a while i think she was right to think what she did. She told her friend that she liked someone and her friend told her to stay away from him. That is not fair to do to someone even if you liked him first.

Nora (the friend who is now mad at Ruby) is icing Ruby out and hanging out with their OLD friends who absolutely hate Ruby. Sitting with them at lunch is like a smack in the face. It is just as bad as if Ruby just started kiss Noel (the boy Nora and Ruby liked) right in front of Nora.

Ruby is now back to being a roly-poly (what they call someone who has not a lot of friends) she literally has two people talking to her and they are also considered roly-polies. AND NOW Noel of all people is mad because someone was comforting Ruby because she was crying.

Are you following me??

I know this story is confusing when i try to explain it but that is the character of Ruby. Her whole life is one big jumble of different stuff. While someone is doing this or that another person is doing this while being mean to her. It is just a bunch of madness!!!!!!

At home Ruby is pushed away by her parents and she is an only child. Sometimes i feel like she does somethings for attention. She doesn't get that much attention at home so she wheres fish net tights and things to get attention from guys. everyone wants people to like them, no one wants to be hated, Ruby just has a weird way of getting her attention: flirting for every guy. One day she wants him and the next day she wants someone new. 

It would definitely be hard to be friends with Ruby but I wouldn't hate her like most girls do. I honestly think some things that she does are not fare and like i said her life is one big mess BUT she is not crazy or anything like that. Despite what she says about her self and what other people say she is not crazy boy stealing slut. (what she and other people think of her) 

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In my book, The Treasure Map of Boys, I find it interesting that a girl with so much self hatred can find love in someone.

This girl is always saying what a crazy she is and how she is in some serious mental state. Yet she always finds someone who likes her or who she likes. She falls in and out of love so easily. I think it is strange that she can think these horrible things about herself and still love someone else. It is a confusing web that I thought out. This is sort of my thought process that i went through as i learned more about Ruby.

                   

Ruby is a very confusing character and it is hard to keep track of all her emotions that she goes through in even just one chapter. She is like a good bomb, (good witch that sort of thing) it only takes a little thing to set her off. But she is a good person and she does want to do good things.

This is why i don't understand how everyone calls her mean names. She did not do anything wrong, i am not saying i would have done the same thing as she did, but she did not do anything so bad that people have to write abut her on the bathroom stalls.

Real Live Boyfriends

      
      I sort of feel bad for Ruby and because she does not really have a clear point of what exactly she is doing. People call her rude mean names that are hurtful to any one but she has to put up with it. She has a boyfriend and she has like 2 friends but it is not enough. She wants a real. live. boyfriend.

     I dont think what she wants is wrong she just wants someone who will pay attention to her. Both her parents are either fighting or kissing and at school she is an outcast and her friend Kim is like a boyfriendanatior (terminator but with boys).

     Ruby wants a real live boyfriend. All this is, is a guy who pays attention to you and cares for you. It was like your dream guy. But she doesn't have that instead she has a guy who doesn't call her back and writes poems about blood. She is trying to kid herself and make her think that she IS in love but when she asks Kim what it is like to be in love they have two whole different definitions.

       A real live boyfriend is someone who you don't have to worry about. You can hang out with him even if he is with his friends. Someone who will always call you back. As a reader i think it is obvious that she needs attention. She gets panick attacks and she went through a whole boy crazy phase. SHE NEEDS ATTENTION.

       I don't really like Ruby because she is relatable but she annoys me. I don't really understand where she comes from. If that makes sence. She annoys me but she is interesting as well.overall i do like the book and am interested to read more.

Free Post for the Hate List

I really admire what Valerie is doing. Even though a lot of people hated her she went back to school anyway. She faced her fears and went through a whole year. She made friends with one of the number one people on the hate list and she got over Nick. She came to realize that nick was dead and no matter how many people hated her, or how alone she felt, he would never be there.

I think Valerie was admirable because she faced her dad during her parents divorce. I think that was one of the most scary parts of the book and it made me scared for her. She dealt with it the right way, I think. She handled it on her own AND she told her mom and Dr.Heiler about what happened.

When Troy threatened her it was also very sad. I thought she was at the party to have fun and she might finally have a boyfriend. I felt the same way she did, so when I found out that she was being babysat I was devastated. How could someone do this? It was horrible. Then when Troy threatened her with a gun was super scary. No one should feel the fear that went through her mind. He also hurt her. That was a part in the book that as a reader it was hard to read.

After all of this happens she still has the courage to go and apologize to people WHO SHE DIDN”T EVEN KILL. She went to houses of people who looked at her like dirt some didn't even want her in their house. But I was so shocked at Chrisy Burters parents because they were he most forgiving and nice to her. Their daughter was practically the cause for the whole thing.